In which things seem positive, generally.

Thursday, July 24th, 2008

Hello, dedicated stalkers! Here’s a list of cool things that I have to report since you’ve last peered into my window:

We have a date/location for the wedding.
Our wedding will be on Saturday, September 12, 2009 at Jester Park Lodge, which is a very pretty, rustic lodge on the western shore of Saylorville Lake. Our plan is to get married and have the reception in the same location, thus cutting down on commute times and whatnot. Plus, that way we can get to drinking straightaway, which is pretty important. Anyway… save the date. And if any of you already have pressing commitments 13+ months from now, well, that’ll actually probably work in our favor. Amanda has just informed me that she has over 100 aunts, uncles, and first cousins in her family, and we’re really trying to keep the number of people at the wedding/reception to around 150 people. So I think that means that I get to invite half a dozen friends, my parents, and probably my grandparents. ;)

I have an iPhone.
Probably not as cool as my wedding news, but still pretty fun nonetheless. I’ve been craving an iPhone for a while now, and needed a new phone regardless, but I couldn’t really justify the cost. But when the new 2nd-gen iPhones came out, I scored an old 1st-gen model off of someone who needed the latest and greatest. So I got an iPhone, and at a really great price. Score.

Friend Anne is back in the States.
Admittedly, this one didn’t happen under the best of circumstances (but that’s none of your business, thank you very much!), but my friend Anne is back in the United States. She’d been living in Amsterdam since around the 1st of the year, and while that worked out great when we were visiting Europe this spring (free room and an excuse to visit A-Dam), it sucked not having her around more often. So now she’s back in the good ol’ U-S-of-A. Of course, she’s living in Minnesota for the time being, but it’s a start. And Amanda and I are going to see her this weekend (we were already heading north for a camping trip with her family this weekend), and I think I have her convinced to come down for the state fair, as well.

My dad is out of the hospital.
This is another one of those “silver lining” things that I’ve been so fond of as late. My dad is out of the hospital, which is pretty great news. Of course, that meant that he had to be in the hospital first, but I’ll take what I can get. He’d come down with MRSA, which is an antibiotic-resistant staph infection, and it was spreading through his body. But it seems to be under control now, at least to the point where he can leave the hospital after a 3-day stint, and I’m choosing to see that is good news. :)

Catching Up on July

Monday, July 14th, 2008

Good golly miss Molly, but I’ve been a busy boy of late! I bet you’d just love to have some more detail to go with that sentence too, wouldn’t you? Well, here’s what’s been going on so far in July.

I ate barbequed or grilled things for seven meals between the 1st and 5th of July. Yay Summer, I guess. If you do the math, that means I was eating grill-food for far more than 50% of my non-breakfast meals during that span (and I did manage to avoid BBQ breakfasts).

On July 1, August Home celebrated its 30th anniversary. As a result, I got to hear a bit of the history of the company, and it sort of cracks me up. Our CEO left Meredith on June 30, 1978, and on July 1st he decided he still liked eating and whatnot, so he’d better figure out something new to do. Yadda yadda yadda, now I have a job too.

On July 3, the UPS guy delivered a very awesome, very large present from myself (and Amanda), to myself (and Amanda). We’re now the proud owners of Rock Band, which is a ton of fun.

Hannah and Tono also came over for dinner, drinks, and some Rock Band action on the evening of the 3rd. We had brats (one of my many grilled meals) and ate out on the back porch, which was great until the mosquitoes figured out where we were.

The 4th of July rocked in all manner of rocking. Amanda and I woke up and headed straight down for a bit of Rock Band fun, then got ready for the day. Then we met up with a bunch of friends (Hannah, Tono, Megan, Klay, Sara, Julie) and had a free grilled lunch courtesy of Meredith. And then we headed to the fantastic and huge 80/35 concert and had a fantastic time. We managed to see four bands in action: Public Property (a local band), Ingrid Michaelson (really funny), Andrew Bird (so good, I nearly cried), and The Flaming Lips (pictured above, rocking). It was, all told, and incredible experience. After the concert, we headed downtown for drinks and got to bed way too late.

We got up way too early on July 5th and drove north to Minneapolis to attend the wedding of Amanda’s friend Nicole. Originally, I was a little miffed to be spending my Independence Day weekend at a wedding for a girl I’d only met once before, but I ended up having a good time, and Amanda and I took lots of mental notes for our own wedding and reception plans. I discovered that I really like Black Russians, and it’s become my new cocktail hour drink of choice.

We got back into town late on the 6th. Grandma and Grandpa drove Miles back up for us (they’ve had him nearly every other weekend ever since we got back from Europe!). They also brought us Arby’s, which was pretty nice, since all I’d had to eat so far that day was cookies and gummi bears. Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

The 7th and 8th were pretty low-key (which we needed at that point). On the 9th, we toured a reception hall that we liked a lot. The only negative, really, was that it’s a ways out of town, and we were originally hoping to have our reception in the downtown area somewhere. But the place is very pretty, so we may have to compromise on that one.

On the 10th we went to a Tweetup, which is a gathering of your friendly neighborhood Twitter friends. We only stayed out for a few hours, but we had a really good time, and met several new people. We also got to hear a live poetry reading, which I hadn’t done since college.

Ahh, the 11th… how’d it get to be Friday again already? We went out to Friday Fest with new couple-friends Tigon and Ben. We ended up having enough to drink that it seemed perfectly logical to ~keep~ drinking after the Fest bit ended, so we headed downtown to El Bait Shop. Ben is a huge fan of beer, but he’d never been to the Shop to witness their 160 Taps of Glory, so we figured we should remedy that. And after that, we headed back to our place for a little Rock Band action. On the way home, we stopped by a liquor store for even more drinks, and Ben bought a bottle of Iowa-made Templeton Rye. I gave it a try, and discovered that it’s easily my favorite whiskey, so I think we’ll be getting a bottle soon as well.

We were pretty lazy for most of the day during the 12th except a run to the Woodsmith Store for supplies, but that evening we headed to Lindsay Rees’s place for her third annual July barbeque. It was my third year in attendance, which made me the only true veteran there aside from Lindsay herself. We had drinks (well, I did – Amanda was driving, so she mostly behaved herself) and chatted, listened to music, played cards… all the fun mid-July barbeque stuff.

And then on the 13th we got up decently early, moved all our furniture out of the bedroom, and painted that bad boy. It ended up taking all day, because we were painting using three different colors (the ceiling is one color, the three walls another, and an accent wall a third), but I think it came out looking really great. Of course, the paint was still drying when it was time for bed, so we ended up sleeping on the futon in the basement last night. Tonight, we’ll pull off all the tape, put everything back in the room, and snap some pictures. So expect a post covering our handiwork in the near future.

And as for this week… it’s looking more sane and sedate. Which is good. Our only big plan so far is we’re going to a midnight showing of The Dark Knight with a bunch of Twitter friends on Thursday night (technically 12:01am Friday morning). And as a result, Amanda and I are going to take Friday off from work to have a nice, relaxing day to ourselves. Unless something really cool comes our way, of course. :)

Big announcement time.

Tuesday, May 8th, 2007

amanda and i before the weddingMy trip north was a general success. I met the parents, and they didn’t seem to hate me overly much. I met a bunch of Amanda’s friends, and they seemed to accept my presence as well (which is good, because Amanda drove, meaning I was pretty much stuck). I attended a wedding, and managed to make no more a fool of myself than I intended. So all in all, I’d say it was a good trip. :)

And now seems like as good a time as any to make a fairly big announcement: Amanda will be moving in with me on Saturday, May 19. We’ve been talking about the possibility of her moving in for several months now, and the timing just seems right. Her lease is up, we’re getting along famously, we both have good jobs, we already spend nearly every non-working moment together, and I’m not getting any more established than I already am. So we’ve decided to consolidate households.

Neither of our families are exactly ecstatic about the decision, as could probably be assumed. Her parents think it’s a fast move, which is understandable, since her family seems to move a little slower than mine relationship-wise, and we have only been dating a little over five months. My parents aren’t particularly happy, either: my mom’s settled on the “it’s an affront to God” routine, though her solution to the problem is just for us to get married in the interim weeks. Unlikely. My brother’s probably a little annoyed, because I’ve warned him he can’t come over to do laundry anymore at that point. And I know Kara is disappointed, because she was hoping to move in at the same time, but I think consolidating three people into one household would put undue strain on Amanda and my relationship (and thus my and Kara’s friendship).

Alas, it’ll all work out in the end. I’ve high hopes, at any rate. :)